“Jesus, We Love You” | A True Short Story

WE DROVE IN THE DARK, HEADLIGHTS SHOWING THE WAY BEFORE US ON BUSY I-25 NORTH. The stars were hard to see under the haze of Northern Colorado’s light pollution. Jean laid back in the passenger seat, eyes opening and closing slowly, as she recovered from a small food coma.

As I exited I-25 and drove down one of Fort Collins’ main streets, I clutched my steering wheel and stopped in a left-hand turning lane, toward a street I had only been down a few times before.

“Oh, it’s at the church,” Jean said, remembering that we were not meeting at CSU, like normal.

“Yup!” I replied, excitedly. “At the new church.”
About a month prior, the church had signed a lease for a new church building, and everyone was still settling into it. Not going to that particular church on Sundays, Jean and I had only been there once. It was a modest, but sweet little church, nestled among a few neighborhoods in east Fort Collins; surrounded by a small, green lawn, and both upper and lower places to park, it was the perfect fit for the church body at the time.

Getting closer to the church parking lot, I felt giddy inside. Over the past few months, I had gotten closer to many of the people who were apart of this college-aged ministry. Most of them were goofy; they loved Jesus, but were not afraid to have some fun– something I finally realized that I desperately needed.


Three years earlier, I had a similar chance to enjoy life, with some people who loved Christ– and truly did care about me. Freshly 18 years old, I joined a new church. They were big enough to have a medium-sized group of 18-30 year olds join together weekly, for teaching, fellowship, and fun.

For all the goodness that season offered, I took none of it. In the grips of a mental illness, I desperately and deeply believed that God wanted me to be “alone with Him,” always, turning beautiful solitude into crippling isolation. The voices in my head, voices that I thought were God speaking to me Himself, controlled EVERYTHING– everything from what I wore, to what I would write in a text message. As a part of this, I was firmly legalistic; for example, this guiding voice would tell me to forego the shorts and t-shirts appropriate for summer, for complete-coverage sweaters, flared jeans, and hiking boots.

Because of the voices, it took everything within me to hang out with the people from this church group. When I did hang out with this group of people, I refused to allow myself to openly and freely enjoy them, and to enjoy life with them. I became friends with some of them; but I never let myself “belong” to them. For reasons I won’t cite here (it would be a long story), my heart guarded itself, ready to have to leave them just because “God told me to.”

I won’t lie. My isolation was my fault; yet, I was a victim in it all, held captive by the delusional beliefs of a mental illness.

As summer turned into fall, I had two mental breakdowns: the first, which could have severely harmed me, and then one which sent me straight to a mental hospital.

Funnily enough, no one from that church group texted me during my 10-day stay in the mental hospital (not that I would have been able to text back– they took our cell phones away). I took no offense to this lack of communication, and I still don’t; but, when I finally got out of the hospital, I shared with some of my friends from this bigger church group what had happened. The closer ones felt horrible for not being more involved in my life, while others wanted to know more, fighting for me every step of the way.

I spent a “Friendsgiving” Thanksgiving celebration with them, expressing how thankful I was for each one of them. But, as fall turned to winter, a big, somewhat dramatic event occurred, causing my father (I was still living with my family at the time) to forbid me from going back to that fellowship.


Just like that, I had to say “goodbye” again.


FAST-FORWARD TO THREE YEARS, AND A FEW SMALL YOUNG ADULTS GROUPS LATER, JEAN AND I CAME INTO THE CHURCH’S PARKING LOT, WHICH WAS EMPTY. “Is anyone here yet?” Jean and I wondered, as I quickly texted C, one of the girls from the group. A few seconds later, we saw her jog up cement stairs we weren’t aware were there, gleefully bouncing up and down, waving her hand at us. Hopping out of the car, we followed her down the cement steps, smiling.

The stairs brought us to the backyard of the church, where a small fire pit was being lit by Pastor D. Met and greeted with the all-too familiar “Hey fam!” that S welcomed everyone with, I thought to myself, “I thought this was going to be an indoor game night…”. I was thankful I had brought my coat. Though chilly at the end of November, the higher temperatures held on, and we were able to see the stars a little clearer in the dark, winter sky.

Sitting down, we watched as J and T came in, down through the cement stairs, too. J, a wonderful, hilarious young woman, sat down next to C, Jean and I, offering her blanket to us. Already, we were laughing hard at the endless, lively humor everyone always brought with them. As we continued to welcome those coming in, Pastor D, his wonderful wife, and their family offered us food. “Hey guys, get your hotdogs!”

LATER THAT EVENING, our goofy chatter slowed to a silent halt, all of us either looking up at the sky, or thinking to ourselves. Some of us sensed an awkwardness in the silence, at first. But, as the fire crackled before us, we slouched in our chairs around it, allowing the silence to permeate the atmosphere. C’s brother started to fingerpick his acoustic guitar, letting the soft, slow notes drift into the winter night.

Looking up at the night sky, I felt there was one thing I needed to express to everyone: gratitude. But I was too afraid to speak up in that moment.
Slowly, C’s brother started to play a song I knew the words to, a song I loved. It was his voice alone, crooning to the guitar he was so tenderly playing.

“Old things have passed away
Your love has stayed the same

There was one voice. Then another. Then another.

Your constant grace remains the cornerstone.

Subtly, a low, soft unison of voices sang out into the heavens around us. I closed my eyes, hanging on to every word sung, as a prayer to the God who gave me life.

-Things that we thought were dead
Are breathing in life again-

The God who was with me through each season of life.
Suddenly, those words hit me. And I remembered the things that were dead.

My relationships. My heart. My health. My Joy. My youth.

What once was dead– my very own life– Jesus graciously breathed life into, again.

You cause your Son to shine on darkest nights

Where there was once emptiness, confusion, and chaos, there was now light, abundance, Joy, and Peace.

For all that You’ve done, we will pour out our love
This will be our anthem song

Our voices got louder, more intentional. Full of Joy, the chorus rang out.

Jesus we love You,
Oh how we love You!
You are the one our hearts adore
Our hearts adore.

Our voices washed out the dark night, around us.
We were harmonizing without even trying. All at once, we were pouring out our hearts to the God who had given us breath to breathe, a song to sing!

The song stayed soft; like a lover expressing their heartfelt thanks to their beloved, we sung from the depths of our hearts– like it was the most honest, vulnerable thing we had ever let out of our mouths. (I pray it was.)

The hopeless have found their hope
The orphans now have a home

Reading the lyrics to this song, I now think of those who are in the process of letting this become true in their lives. Those friends who, right now, do not have hope. Orphans who are struggling to call anyone, or anywhere, home.

All that was lost has found its place in You-

And as I am remembering what it felt like to be lost, in this world without any Love or Hope, I am reminded of who Jesus is, to me, today.

You lift our weary head
You make us strong instead

He is the God who daily bears our burdens, the God we cast our cares upon (Psalm 68:19; 1 Peter 5:7). The God we call out to in the darkest of nights; in the most barren of lands; and in the most lonely of hearts.

You took these rags and made us beautiful

The God who restores. 

Friends, think about where you have been today.
About where you have cried out from.

Maybe you are in the middle of crying out, today.
Maybe you are rummaging through pain so thick and so deep, through a darkness so dark, that it deeply threatens to bury you alive.
If this is you, cry out to Jesus.

Allow Him to see the rags, the darkest night, and the death in your life (He already does.)
And allow Him to come into it. To breathe new life into it.

And last but not least, in view of all He has done,
pour out your heart to Him.

Be a bold witness to the redeeming power of Jesus.
Because He, and He alone, is worthy of our worship.

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Jesus we love you
Oh how we love you
You are the one our hearts adore

Our affection, our devotion poured out on the feet of Jesus
Our affection, our devotion poured out on the feet of Jesus
Our affection, our devotion poured out on the feet of Jesus
Our affection, our devotion poured out on the feet of Jesus.

As we sang other Worship songs, and listened to Pastor D share his heart on how life is too short– the Lord’s coming too immediate– to not be intentional about how we live our lives, there was one thing I knew I had delayed saying, that night. Seizing the moment, I spoke.

“There is one thing I wanted to tell everyone,” I started, people’s giggling immediately hushed to a silence.

Honestly, I don’t even know exactly what I said to them. All I know is that I did express how thankful I was for them, and how I had been looking for good friends.

They smiled, replied with an “Aww.” They expressed how thankful they were for us, too.

Goofiness ensued, in the form of fun board games. But that thankfulness stayed in my heart, and still does, today.

“Our affection, our devotion, poured out on the feet of Jesus.”

May our affection, and our devotion, be poured out onto Jesus– and those He has so graciously placed in our lives.

May it stay that way.



Time to Wait (Never Wasted)

It’s time to wait
It’s now or never
Is it time to date
Or time to sever?
I don’t know
All I know
Is that I want to be like the tree
in Jeremiah 17.
At this point
Words are superfluous

Please, let’s be
like the tree
in Jeremiah 17.

“But blessed is the one who trusts in the Lord,
    whose confidence is in him.
They will be like a tree planted by the water
    that sends out its roots by the stream.
It does not fear when heat comes;
    its leaves are always green.
It has no worries in a year of drought
    and never fails to bear fruit.”
(Jeremiah 17:7-8, NIV)